Dream Partner Proposal
I met my wife Annie in 1998 for the first time in Bhopal…she came to visit her brother who was my room mate at that time. She attended the church service along with us and there during the service offered a solo song which attracted the crowd…no doubt the singer touched my heart more than the song.
Later I had the opportunity to spend more personal time with Annie and this slowly but steadily grew in to a strong friendship. In 2001 when the friendship grew to a strong intimacy I decided to go ahead with the engagement proposal. I began to ask her ideas, plans, desires when it comes to a marital life, asked her about the ideal dream husband she was cherishing in her dreams…asked her likings, disliking and deeper things about her marriage and family life she was planning or dreaming.
In our conversation she asked similar questions to me also…she kept on asking me to give her idea the type of personality I was looking for as a life partner. Step by step both of us realized that we were narrating the person in our hearts very much similar to ourselves–I was narrating a dream girl which she felt is very similar to her own nature and I felt the same when she was talking about her dream hubby.
I took the initiative to tell are we not narrating about each other in our dream partners? She said “yes”. I told her this is enough now we can seriously think about making each other life partners…I noticed her warm and charm emotional expressions which gave a clean and clear indication that she accepted my proposal.
The relationship grew and we got engaged and finally married in November 2001. We are leading a wonderful family life. We have a three year old son and the next one is on the way.
